Dispute With Your Loved One? Here Is A Quick Solution…

One day, I had a minor dispute with my wife which made me upset. As a result, I stopped talking to her and started blaming her for triggering unhappy emotions in my mind. I started thinking that I got married to a wrong girl who doesn’t understand me and is not bothered about my feelings.

I got surrounded by a lot of negative thoughts which were pushing me towards negativity. This negativity was adversely impacting me, my performance and my behavior.

I needed a quick relief from this mental distress. My mind was struggling hard to fix the dispute with my wife and get on the positive track at the earliest. My mind needed a good support to fix this small issue. Everybody goes through such situations at one point or another. Everybody handles such situations in his/her own way.

Whenever I get into a challenging situation, I have a habit of finding a solution instead of mourning too much over a challenge.

I realized that we all have an inbuilt support system in our body to tackle a difficult situation.

To direct my mind, I needed to take support from its greatest companion – The Intellect. 

Mind and Intellect work together to tackle every challenge. They are like a husband and a wife – keep influencing each other according to their life impressions (Sanskars). At times, they fight with each other, but ultimately come together, work together for the betterment of our life.

If Mind and Intellect don’t work together, the outcome may not be satisfactory.

These two invisible/intangible forces drive our visible/tangible body to take certain actions. It’s a great combination of Shiva (Man Power) and Shakti (Woman Power) empowering each other.

My intellect guided my mind to calm down and convinced that it was a very minor issue which could be fixed easily. The next day, my wife and I discussed the issue that we had and sorted it out.

A small discussion with open minds helped us sort out the confusion and we again become a usual happy married couple.

Sometimes, we still get into a dispute, but we sort it out quickly with a discussion. 

Mindful and intellectual communication is a key to create a “Win-Win Situation”.

How do you handle such troubling situations? Are you driven by your Mind or Intellect? Do your Mind and Intellect work together to tackle any situation? Watch out!

A great collaboration of our mind and brain is much needed in our life to tackle any situation.

Let’s enrich our life with good experiences to strengthen our Mind and Intellect to get marvelous results.

Enjoy a Mindful and Intellectual Living! 😊